We are on our own journey. We had been rather conditioned into accepting out sex assigned at birth and never thought we were allowed to consider anything different.
But it wasn’t as easy going as it appeared on the surface. One day, I came across a video lecture that included this snippet:
That permitted me to stop torturing myself trying to be something that felt so clumsy …
We are old now, and just knowing that it’s ok to be non-binary it’s kind of enough, but I still do like to follow up on issues and here is a video playlist that I keep adding stuff to. hope you find it informative. ⚧️
